Frustration
I am frustrated with a 'friend' of mine. This 'friend' used to support me in everything I did. I used to look forward to every day when I could hang out with my 'friend'. Now, my 'friend' has disapointed me one too many times. I know my 'friend' is about to make a very upsetting announcement, but instead of simply owning up to the announcement, they are delaying the announcement, trying to get every last ounce of effort from each and every one who is friends with them.
Unfortunately, instead of just leaving my friend, I can't. I care about my friend too much. I have invested too much time, effort, and friends into this envevour. So I am torn between watching my 'friend' throw everything away, and only being able to watch them do it, and leaving them to their own devices.
At any rate, I will have to see where the next few months leads me. It is like choosing between turning in a murdering brother, and watching him continue to kill others. Neither decision leaves a good taste in my mouth, and no matter what, someone gets hurt.
Game On!
Unfortunately, instead of just leaving my friend, I can't. I care about my friend too much. I have invested too much time, effort, and friends into this envevour. So I am torn between watching my 'friend' throw everything away, and only being able to watch them do it, and leaving them to their own devices.
At any rate, I will have to see where the next few months leads me. It is like choosing between turning in a murdering brother, and watching him continue to kill others. Neither decision leaves a good taste in my mouth, and no matter what, someone gets hurt.
Game On!
6 Comments:
Does this "friend" live near me by any chance?
John
I can't say, as I don't know where you live... But my friend is located in a state that rhymes with Firginia...
From the capital baby.
John
You can't make the decisions for your friends... they have to succeed or fail on their own - and as painful as it can be, the best a friend can do is give advice when it's asked for and comfort them as they're sharing a beer with you over their troubles.
The sky is not falling...
Oh, oh! I know someone if Firginia!
But they don't have any bad news that I know of...
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